The Office of the Supreme Leader

Relation during Engagement

Q: Is it allowed for a boy to phone and talk to his fiancée in order that they get more familiar to each other considering the fact that their families know about it?
A: As long as the marriage formula has not been recited in a valid way, they remain non-maḥram to each other. Therefore, if they do so without lustful intention while they are sure that it does not result in any vile consequence, it is no problem; otherwise, it is not permissible.
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